New & Exciting Changes!

It’s so much easier waiting and being patient when you can see the lovely light at the end of the tunnel! Mark and I have found a new apartment that we can move into on August 1st that is gorgeous and a major step up from our current place. I’ll add photos when we’re moved in, since it’s being repainted & cleaned at the moment. Our current apartment is all clean and organized because we have company! Lizzie & Eli from BG Cru are visiting Chicago & staying with us. We had the best surprise last night when they left for dinner and came back engaged! I’m so excited for them!

Mark and I are waiting for our tickets to Cancun as the date gets closer and closer. Two and a half more weeks to go! It’s going to be a whirlwind getting packed and starting to move between both apartments. The local thrift store chain is having a 1/2 off sale this weekend, so I’m going on a search for a living room rug. The new apartment has almost new hardwood floors and we have heavy furniture, so I’m nervous about scratching up the floors. We learned our lesson last weekend at the thrift store when we decided to wait a bit on a rolling kitchen cart and then saw it being wheeled out by another customer 10 minutes later. I need to be faster at making decisions! (We also have no room for anything anyway…)

Mark has FAFSA mostly filled out with the help of wonderful people at Wright College and is waiting on a few more things to fall in place before he can schedule classes & orientation. It’s hard to believe he’ll be going back to school in about 4 weeks! The campus is great, with lots of grass and trees, and it’s actually closer to our new apartment. He’s been working with a specialist on ADHD techniques and there’s already a noticeable difference. He’s getting things done faster, hardly forgetting anything, and by going to the gym earlier made a new friend. He’s learning to box from the new friend and is pretty excited about it. We received 4 great books on ADD/ADHD also from my aunt and uncle. I’ve been reading through the first one on the train and I think it’s actually having more of an affect on me than Mark. He doesn’t need to understand how ADD works, he lives it. I, however, am getting a better in depth perspective than I got out of my psychology classes.

I also started reading through Uninvited by Lysa TerKeurst, and Crazy Love by Francis Chan. It’s an interesting experience reading through both at the same time. They tend to complement each other as they use the same concept to two different ends. Uninvited is about relearning your identity based on Biblical truth instead of past experiences and Crazy Love is about taking a look at God’s identity and how that shows his love for us. If anybody else is reading either, I’d love to hear your thoughts about them. I had the best intentions to read through Uninvited with a friend, but the mailing system & book store craziness that ensued resulted in two books ending up in Ohio and one eventually making it to Chicago that I started reading & gave to my sister, thinking mine would be mailed from Ohio in a few days. Well, I think Chicago USPS ate my book, as it still hasn’t shown up. Luckily, I have plenty of ADD books, plus Crazy Love to finish first.

Oh, Chicago

I haven’t been writing because I keep waiting for things to be resolved first. It doesn’t seem like that will happen anytime soon. I’ve got things that are up in the air, Mark has things up in the air, church things are in flux…

I’m waiting for word back from a few places before we can 100% say we’ll be in Chicago for the next year. Mark was accepted to a local college (yay!!) but can’t finish registration because we may or may not still be in Chicago or this particular part of Chicago. We said goodbye to one of the two pastors of our church and will be saying good bye to our lovely deaconess soon as they move on to new things. (Does any pastor actually stay retired?) And we’re in limbo waiting to hear if Mark’s temporary contract will turn into an actual job. What kind of HR department just stops scheduling you without even a “hey, your contract is ending soon” email? So many places have hidden workings that aren’t as straight forward as the official/public policies.

But with all of this crazy, chaotic change and waiting, we’re finally getting used to Chicago. We have friends visiting us in July, planned a double date this week with another newly married couple our age, and are starting membership class at our church. I’ve been walking to and from the train since it’s so nice out, and taking a back way through residential areas to cut down on the frustration of unsolicited attention. Mark found a great counseling center that will work with him on his ADHD in preparation for the school year. I went to Activate, a Chicago Loop event with free food and entertainment and then met Cru Millennials in Millennium Park for a concert. It was so nice to talk with friends!

We now have friends here! Chicago in winter is not an easy place to meet people, but I feel like we are starting to build a community around us. Our church is lovely, but doesn’t have many college-age men for Mark to do things with. Cru Millennials is a genius idea and connects Cru alumni with other like-minded people in big cities. A large majority of the people I’ve met through the bi-weekly lunches are young men that Mark can get to know.

Apartment hunting season is here, and half of my office has been talking about landlords, moving companies and leases. I can’t wait to get out of our apartment and into something that we can stay in for longer. We still have boxes to unpack because we don’t have the space, and every time we go back to Ohio we take a car load back to our parents’ basements. Various people have given us suggestions of newspaper listings, good neighborhoods, and what to look for. I can’t believe the difference here of how little space people have, especially for storage. How do you organize an entire life into two closets?? What do people do with winter coats and blankets? Maybe that’s why every few blocks I see a giant storage location…